From the Archives: Having Heart and Hope in the Hard Times
From time to time on By Word of Beth, I delve into the blog’s archives, and repost something that can perhaps speak to us again. Throughout this pandemic, we have all been dealing with unprecedented difficulties, with things we have never experienced before, with hard times. Perhaps this post from 2017 can give us some hope as we continue to move through this time, so we can be like this rose, and keep on growing, even though the odds seem against us.
How do we deal with hard times? Sometimes it seems as though ostriches, with their fabled “head in the sand” mentality, have it right. When the going gets tough, stick your head in the sand and hope things blow over.
First of all, that concept isn’t true. As National Geographic Kids points out, if they did that, they wouldn’t be able to breathe! The times they’re likely to look as though they have their heads in the sand are a) when they’re scrounging for food with their heads down, and b) when the females are turning their eggs, which are laid in holes in the ground.
So instead of hiding from reality, they’re really feeding themselves — building up their strength — and ensuring that the next generation is cared for. They’re showing heart and hope.
It turns out that ostriches ARE a good example to follow in hard times, just not for the reason we’ve always thought.
When hard times come, either personal difficulty, or social or national turmoil and uncertainty, it’s hard to do the things we know deep down are good things — it’s hard to keep on being strong, facing the problems, finding ways to deal with them AND it’s hard to keep on exercising our creativity.
It sounds like a platitude, and on one level it is, but we need to have heart and hope in the hard times.
We need to keep feeding our minds with good things (and our bodies as well). Seek out truth and true sources of information. Read things that build your understanding — of our world, of people, of your craft. Seek out people who can support you, and whom you can support, as you go through whatever lies ahead. We all need companions on the journey — no matter how introverted we are.
We need to find ways to build our strength — that’s our inner strength as well as our physical strength. Again, steeping ourselves in the wisdom of books that help us go deeper into truth; seeking out experiences that will open us to new ways of doing things; learning about other cultures; opening our hearts.
And we need to find ways to build our hope in the future, and to bolster others’ hope in that future. This can happen in big and small ways — as Mother Teresa said, “Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.”
Many of my friends are finding small ways to make a difference in peoples’ lives and to show heart and give hope in the hard times — crocheting beanies for cancer patients, taking in rescue animals, teaching, creating theatre for kids, building little free libraries and little free pantries, working with #WeNeedDiverseBooks.
Those of us who are involved in creating children’s books (and indeed, books for all ages) need to remember that our gifts of strength and hope and heart and celebration of diversity through our writing are needed more now than ever. Keep on writing! Keep on creating! Keep on hearting and hoping!
The word courage comes from early Latin and French words for heart. From etymology online: “c. 1300, from Old French corage (12c., Modern French courage) “heart, innermost feelings; temper,” from Vulgar Latin *coraticum (source of Italian coraggio, Spanish coraje), from Latin cor “heart,” from PIE root *kerd- (1) “heart” (see heart (n.)) which remains a common metaphor for inner strength.”
There’s a wonderful, inspiring, heartening quotation from Mary Anne Radmacher:
“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’”
That takes heart, and it takes hope. May you have them in abundance. May they buoy you up in the hard times.
A timely post, Beth. I found the best way to deal with the last almost 2 years was to concentrate on helping others through it. I loved learning the truth about ostriches and their heads in the sand.
Thank you, Darlene. Yes, focusing on helping others through this time is excellent.
Love this post, Beth. It’s so funny – I read an article in Writer Unboxed the other day (and shared it in my group) that was on a related topic – struggling to find creative energy when life circumstances are taking a toll on you. I think it’s something uniquely related to writers and other artists. Anyone who is creative knows how much energy and focus it requires to write or paint or compose, and how hard it can be to do those things – even if they’re the very things that would keep you going emotionally – when your energies are directed elsewhere.
You are so very right, Susanna. So well said. Thank you.
Thanks for an uplifting and thoughtful post that’s relevant now and always, Beth!
You’re welcome, Teresa. Thank you!
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